It is easy for marriage to become mundane, but that does not mean you have to stop having fun. But the type of flirting that you will do with your husband keeps things thrilling between you and tells each other about how much they love one another.
So, I thought of simple daily actions that can be taken to flirt with anyone who happens to be my husband. Let’s get started!
The Importance Of Flirting In Marriage
This is not just about the flirting you do when you meet for the first time. It will help keep your husband-wife relationship happy and everlasting. Here’s why it’s important:
Flirting lets your husband know that you think he’s hot and can also keep things exciting
Cheeky little flirty moments, you both feel connected and remind yourselves why you are together
When you flirt, it puts a little sparkle in your relationship
Simple Flirting Ideas For Your Husband
1. Give Him Compliments
Compliment on your husband, it is one of the easiest ways to flirt. It can be little, it just has to say something positive about him and/or the way you feel. For example:
You look great today
I love your smile
You’re amazing at what you do
It is those little praises that can make his ego soar as you compliment him.
2. Send Him Sweet Texts
Just cause you are not with him sending a simple text message can help keep this spark alive. No need to write out a novel, just send him that you are thinking of him. Some ideas:
Thinking of you
Can’t wait to see you tonight
You make my day better
They can either be sweet, flirty or playful in nature.
3. Touch Him More Often
Touch Physical contact is an excellent form of flirting without saying anything. Isn’t this our way of showing love by doing little things like these?
A great way to bond with your partner, holding hands whether you both are out for a walk or sitting on the couch. Hug Him, even if it cladded with mediocrity. Light hand brushes on his arm, through his hair, or a playful nudge.
4. Wear Something He Likes
Flaunt some flat-friendly sex appeal because everybody does it that way, Find a hidden treasure where you feel your pleasure Trick him there and leave;
Maybe a favourite outfit, scent you know he loves, or style of hair. You do not always have to gussy up but wearing something that you know he finds attractive, can make him feel special.
You could turn around and tell him that all you did for this dress was wear it the entire night just to foolproof your claim. It is an effortless way of saying that you are on my mind.
5. Be Playful And Tease Him
The key is to keep flirting enjoyable; therefore, do not be worried if you feel like teasing your husband a little. Gentle teasing is playful and shows that you are having a good time with each other. Here are some ideas:
Reference a joke that only the two of you know. Careful is an awesome way to bond and laugh together.
Challenge him to a game, a race of who can do something first (guess the end of sopranos or make a meal) .Light, teasing back-and-forth conversation is always a good thing.
6. Plan A Surprise Date Night
Date nights can be difficult to always remember when life gets so busy. Plan a date (in or out) to surprise your husband. It doesn’t have to be extravagant, just something that takes the focus off of everything but each other. Here are a few ideas:
Favourite restaurant for a meal together
Home Movie Night choose a movie you both like, order takeout, and spend an evening in.
Perfect for chatting and getting to know each other.
7. Leave Him Little Notes
It is a flirt but done adorably, by leaving sweet notes for your husband. Maybe you put them in his lunch, on the pillow. They need not be lengthy notes, just a couple of words to show you care. For example:
Can’t wait to see you later
You make me so happy
I love you
8. Spice Things Up
Flirting on the other hand sometimes can simply be about livening up your relationship adding a little spice Star. Do something sexy for your husband that he will not expect, a full-on spin in the ocean)$ You know him best. These little things will help him realise that the attraction between you two has not died out.
9. Plan A Mini Getaway
However, if possible make a mini vacation for just the two of you to plan. It does not have to be far or costly, but just a new area for you two.
Going on a weekend trip or for that matter anywhere out of town can serve as an excellent chance to reconnect and flirt in another atmosphere.
10. Be Yourself
Flirting with your husband, or anyone for that matter should start by remaining true to who you are. Be yourself and don’t try to change or pretend like something you’re not.
Your chatting up the waiter may make him think that your husband is married to a very fly chick. Just be yourself, there’s no need for all of this.
Regardless of what factor slant you choose to flirt from, remember this: your flirting will work better for you if it rings true in other words be real.
Final Thoughts
Flirting with your husband is an easy, light-hearted way to keep things fun and fresh in your marriage.